Wednesday, November 10, 2010

F Y I ............ (there it is!)

I am a single 22 year old female.


Which apparently means that my life is useless.


I am a nobody.


Why? You ask.


Because I am a SINGLE 22 year old female.


Without a man in my life I am useless and apparently searching for one!


Or this seems to be what the whole world thinks. Any time there is a young adult male in the midst of all my single glory he is pegged as my future husband. Somebody nudges me, "look Kari you should ask him out" or they summon me to a seat nearest the eligible bachelor so I can stir things up and we can fall in love and live happily ever after, instead of the sad single alternative. No seriously I am not lying!!!!!!

So for all the people out there who think that I am sad and desperate for male affection....I am NOT!


And for all the people out there who think it is their job to find me a husband....It is NOT!


Right now I am NOT looking for a boyfriend. I am NOT lonely. I am NOT desparado!!! I actually am praying that God will hold off for right now. I really want to be a travel nurse in the Labor and Delivery field and I really want to do it without anything tying me down. When the time is right I know God will provide me with the right guy. And if there is never a right time and I have to be single forever....I WILL BE OKAY!














Just thought you'd like to know..... :)

4 comments:

  1. Lol, Kari. It is always so annoying when people are "helpful" where it isn't needed.

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  2. I agree, sweetheart. I'm sorry some of the adults in your life/church seem to think that way. I am trusting God to bring the right man into your life at the right time too! I love you!

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  3. heehee, sorry to laugh at your slight frustration. thankfully, i've received no nudges or encouragement from those around me. ^_^ so i'll try to imagine your pain.

    but i think you're AWESOME and very admirable. i love how strong you are and loving. if there is a man out there AWESOME enough to deserve you (i can't imagine that), then i'm sure he'll be well worth the wait. but if not, as long as you have God, i can't imagine needing or wanting anything more. ^_^ besides, i'm not ready to share you yet with some boy. ^_^

    I LOVE YOU SO MUCH!

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  4. Amen! I love you precious girl and the single life has its perks. PLEASE TRAVEL! PLEASE DO SOMETHING AMAZING! I am glad you are not waiting around for Mr. Right. What a waste of time, when God already knows your heart and he has such magnificent plans for you. I love watching you grow and mature and I can not wait to see what God throws your way.

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